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(02-18-2018, 10:54 PM)Thryleon link Wrote:So they can have a personality so long as it passes what you deem to be acceptable??
Basically no room for personality.
Yes, I’d like everyone to conform to the standards I set ????
Of course, many folk can’t or won’t but that doesn’t mean that I have to accept it. I may tolerate marginal departures but not tossers and sycophants ????
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(02-18-2018, 10:54 PM)Thryleon link Wrote:So they can have a personality so long as it passes what you deem to be acceptable??
Basically no room for personality.
Only if "personality" a code word for abuse?
If you become abusive, subversive or derogatory then you open yourself up to being judged because by your own actions you have already judged someone.
Some people are accustomed or accepting of abuse, possibly because it was the only form of feedback or criticism they were exposed to when growing up, so they think it's normal. It's like those friends everyone has that cannot help but shout whenever they are involved in a debate. They think raising a voice makes a point a winner!
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Anyone with personality cops it. These days you have to pay them lip service.
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