Lyon V Brownless Stoush

[PaulP]

Not hard to understand. She can do as she pleases but a mate doesn't hook up with your ex wife.

The betrayal is equal whether it's a mate or a stranger IMO. You can't consciously decide to develop feelings for this or that person -  these feelings just creep up on you.

The real issue is the hiding - if they came out and were up front about it to begin with, the situation might not have deteriorated to that extent.

No doubt it's very messy, but that's adult life sometimes.