Harry and Megan

[PaulP]

Yes.
It was a decision they made together.
And he's not off the hook.
My sister wants him in the Tower.

But look at it from this perspective.
Harry was a part of the family.
Meghan's arrival on the scene meant that situation now no longer exists.
He's estranged.
If she hadn't come along there's every chance Harry would still be part of the family.
He may be perfectly happy.
You would have to think that there are some aspects of that breakdown in connection that makes him a little sad.
It's that breakdown that has upset people.
But he's made his choice and stands strongly with his wife.

Observing as I do from a great distance, I'd suggest these ideas have been fermenting in Harry's mind before Meghan. I doubt she was the one who planted them and told him to pack his bags.  If they are indeed a team, they would have discussed, fleshed out, weighed up pros and cons etc. There has to be solid reasons for them leaving, because i can't think of too many advantages for them.