07-11-2022, 05:10 PM
The one person in your life that can completely destroy you and your life, is also the same person that could completely change your life, and allow you to achieve everything you desire. I won’t tell you his or her name. It is a different person for every individual. Fact is that you can see them when every you choose. You can touch them. You can hear them. Your best friend and worst enemy at the same time. Wake from your sleep. Go to the bathroom and look in the mirror. Looking back at you is your best friend and biggest nightmare. This is the person that can change your life.
Everything begins with you. The good, the bad and the ugly. Who you choose to guide you is up to the person in that mirror. Who you choose to listen to was looking back at you in the mirror. Once they convince you to make a change, you can bring all the guidance you need in life and look for a better you. You can build a team of helpers around you. You can eat better, train better, learn better. Experience a way to battle through negativity.
However, if the person looking at you in the mirror thinks you are already perfect. Then that level of perfection is all you will ever achieve. If that person tells you to wake up and make a change in your life, then you better listen and actually hear it. I do it time and time again. I don’t think I am completely insane. I might be wrong. I am not scared of that man in the mirror. I know he will always be honest with me. He will always tell me the truth. Why? I have learned to listen to him. More importantly I actually choose to hear him. Then I act accordingly. He is a brutal prick at times, and more often than not. He is my best friend and knows me better than anyone else. He doesn’t have the answers. He just tells me to search for help. Look for a better way. Do something different. Without doing something different, you are trapped to a point where you achieve the same results in life and never see what is most important in life. Learning. Doing something different with failure is actually a success. A reason to not repeat the same pattern. You don’t have to copy those that have had success to have the same success. However if you don’t try to emulate something you don’t do, how will you ever know if what others do will work for you.
Kyrgios does his own thing. He doesn’t look in the mirror. He thinks he is beautiful. He feels his world is fine the way it is. He won’t speak the truth to himself in his mirror. His short falls. Ask himself for help. Why should he. He has enough money in earnings from tennis to keep him happy. Does he have enough speed on the court to win matches? Yes. Does he have a great service game to win matches? Yes. Does he have powerful stroke play to win matches? Yes. Does he have clever X-factor play to be tricky and hard to beat? Yes. Does he have the mental focus to do what is needed when times get tough? No comment. He needs to ask his friend in the mirror. The mirror is never a liar to you. What you see is you. Listen and be honest. Hear the words. Then act.
Why do you think Novak takes toilet breaks? He needs to talk to his best friend and biggest enemy. It actually works. Far better when you are drunk. My recommendation is not to punch on with that guy or girl. She or he will win and you will lose.
Great game by Nick. High performance. Smashed the aces at almost double his opponent. Great creativity with ground strokes. Great power on stroke play. Lacking some experience on the big stage. Has beaten his opponent before twice in their last two matches in straight sets. Never had his service game broken before by Novak. Won his first set in the final, looking all the goods. Confidence sky high and ready to kill it from there on. Unfortunately he lost in the end. A very good match overall. Kyrgios lost to himself. Not to his opponent. The mental focus was off a few points. Something Nadal and Djokovic rarely experience. Probably due to more experience in finals and better support with the teams that prepare them for tournaments. Maybe they have looked in the mirror more often and asked themselves the brutal questions that need to be asked. Maybe they listen better to things they don’t want to hear. Maybe they actually hear those words. Maybe they have better coaches. F#@k that. They are old. How the hell do they do it so well for so long? Is it experience? I think it is learning weaknesses the opponent has shown in their general play. I think it is finding a weakness in a match that they are competing in. I think it is on being able to focus from point to point. Forget the last point and focus on the next. Keep it simple. One moment at a time. Don’t get overwhelmed by the current situation. Baby steps.
Either way, well done Nick. Great result. Well done Novak. You are a true champion.
Everything begins with you. The good, the bad and the ugly. Who you choose to guide you is up to the person in that mirror. Who you choose to listen to was looking back at you in the mirror. Once they convince you to make a change, you can bring all the guidance you need in life and look for a better you. You can build a team of helpers around you. You can eat better, train better, learn better. Experience a way to battle through negativity.
However, if the person looking at you in the mirror thinks you are already perfect. Then that level of perfection is all you will ever achieve. If that person tells you to wake up and make a change in your life, then you better listen and actually hear it. I do it time and time again. I don’t think I am completely insane. I might be wrong. I am not scared of that man in the mirror. I know he will always be honest with me. He will always tell me the truth. Why? I have learned to listen to him. More importantly I actually choose to hear him. Then I act accordingly. He is a brutal prick at times, and more often than not. He is my best friend and knows me better than anyone else. He doesn’t have the answers. He just tells me to search for help. Look for a better way. Do something different. Without doing something different, you are trapped to a point where you achieve the same results in life and never see what is most important in life. Learning. Doing something different with failure is actually a success. A reason to not repeat the same pattern. You don’t have to copy those that have had success to have the same success. However if you don’t try to emulate something you don’t do, how will you ever know if what others do will work for you.
Kyrgios does his own thing. He doesn’t look in the mirror. He thinks he is beautiful. He feels his world is fine the way it is. He won’t speak the truth to himself in his mirror. His short falls. Ask himself for help. Why should he. He has enough money in earnings from tennis to keep him happy. Does he have enough speed on the court to win matches? Yes. Does he have a great service game to win matches? Yes. Does he have powerful stroke play to win matches? Yes. Does he have clever X-factor play to be tricky and hard to beat? Yes. Does he have the mental focus to do what is needed when times get tough? No comment. He needs to ask his friend in the mirror. The mirror is never a liar to you. What you see is you. Listen and be honest. Hear the words. Then act.
Why do you think Novak takes toilet breaks? He needs to talk to his best friend and biggest enemy. It actually works. Far better when you are drunk. My recommendation is not to punch on with that guy or girl. She or he will win and you will lose.
Great game by Nick. High performance. Smashed the aces at almost double his opponent. Great creativity with ground strokes. Great power on stroke play. Lacking some experience on the big stage. Has beaten his opponent before twice in their last two matches in straight sets. Never had his service game broken before by Novak. Won his first set in the final, looking all the goods. Confidence sky high and ready to kill it from there on. Unfortunately he lost in the end. A very good match overall. Kyrgios lost to himself. Not to his opponent. The mental focus was off a few points. Something Nadal and Djokovic rarely experience. Probably due to more experience in finals and better support with the teams that prepare them for tournaments. Maybe they have looked in the mirror more often and asked themselves the brutal questions that need to be asked. Maybe they listen better to things they don’t want to hear. Maybe they actually hear those words. Maybe they have better coaches. F#@k that. They are old. How the hell do they do it so well for so long? Is it experience? I think it is learning weaknesses the opponent has shown in their general play. I think it is finding a weakness in a match that they are competing in. I think it is on being able to focus from point to point. Forget the last point and focus on the next. Keep it simple. One moment at a time. Don’t get overwhelmed by the current situation. Baby steps.
Either way, well done Nick. Great result. Well done Novak. You are a true champion.
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