01-03-2022, 06:05 AM
(01-01-2022, 10:27 PM)Baggers link Wrote:That's something I wrestled with also, Principal LODS. From the meagre research I did (which continues), the issue is not so much Darcy's body, which seems woman, but how Darcy identifies Darcy's gender or otherwise. It's about identity, not body... and that is a challenge for those of us who have a body and identity which seem the same.
I also found the pronoun thing tough... so I just settled on the noun 'Darcy' and gave pronouns the flick. Probably lazy on my part, but it's a start founded on respect.
Back in the 1990s, one of my colleagues was pursuing a PhD about the continuums that are gender and biological sex. We had many challenging (for me) discussions. I learnt a lot of stuff that made my head hurt but, eventually, accepted that gender is essentially a social construct with the binary model predominant in western society. Many societies around the globe have their own long-established traditions of non-binary gender with third, fourth, fifth, or more genders. Biological sex is not as straightforward as I thought either, with disorders of sex development (DSD), also known as intersex, creating a spectrum rather than the binary assignation of biological sex based on XX - XY, vagina - penis, ovaries - testes.
Darcy's announcement is a bit of a non-event for me. I don't really give a fat rat's clacker about how anyone chooses to define/identify their gender. That's their business. However, I do now know that I shouldn't use female pronouns when referring to Darcy. My main concern is that Darcy continues to play good footy and wins the goal kicking again this season.
I can't see an issue with the fact that Darcy plays in a women's footy competition. Eligibility to play in the AFLW is based on biological sex rather than gender identity. As far as I know, Darcy meets whatever criteria there may be for playing AFLW and self-identification as non-binary when it comes to gender doesn't really matter.
“Why don’t you knock it off with them negative waves? Why don’t you dig how beautiful it is out here? Why don’t you say something righteous and hopeful for a change?” Oddball

