CV and mad panic behaviour

[Gointocarlton]

As Thry said its very hard to get everything perfect in life, that new thread would be interesting reading, you always think the grass is greener until you hear about someone elses life...

Exactly. I remember when my dad passed away (at 59, very young), mum was pretty bitter and angry at the world. Always carrying on about why me? Why our family. It wasn't until I sat her down one day and rattled off all the ill health and death other families had experienced or were experiencing that she finally realised it wasn't a conspiracy against her by some greater being. In sport they talk about only worrying about inside the four walls, in my mu'ms case, she had to look outside them to gain some perspective.