08-06-2021, 02:01 AM
@EB
Gee EB afaic those relos have huge and unrealistic expectations of you as cousins of your wife! Must be a cultural thing? I wouldn’t consider the financial affairs of a cousin to be any of my business let alone lending/giving them money. Sorry to hear that you have been placed under such pressure. Not helpful I know but I would be telling them to feck off.
Gee EB afaic those relos have huge and unrealistic expectations of you as cousins of your wife! Must be a cultural thing? I wouldn’t consider the financial affairs of a cousin to be any of my business let alone lending/giving them money. Sorry to hear that you have been placed under such pressure. Not helpful I know but I would be telling them to feck off.
Reality always wins in the end.

