03-20-2020, 02:43 AM
(03-20-2020, 02:10 AM)kruddler link Wrote:Speaking of all this social pressure...
My youngest had a sniffle the other day, so i had to stay home from work because if i sent him in, i'd get a call to come get him because he might have Corona.
That night i started getting a sore throat, by morning i had it in the ears as well. So i told the boss that i wouldn't be coming in.
Same thing for today....he said just stay home until i'm better.
If it wasn't for all this panic, i would've gone into work and not even mentioned it.
Now, tomorrow is my brothers wedding. He has had to ring guests and tell him they are no longer allowed to come because the number of people has to be under 100....including staff. That is such a sucky thing to have to do.
If i turn up and people find out i'm sick, then there will be plenty of disapproving looks.
If i don't turn up, i'll forever hear about it...not from my brother, but the extended family.
Social pressure is making me want to miss my brothers wedding!
How would you guys feel if you were in my position?
How would you guys feel if you were another guest at the wedding?
Depends how paranoid you are. The number of cases with unknown sources is already climbing, so it's out in the general public already. Asymptomatic transmission is almost certainly days before anyone knows they've got it. If your brothers wedding was in 1-2 weeks time it would be outright cancelled.
I have the ability to work from home so am doing so, and took my kids out of school because I could do so. I go out when I need to, and try to avoid busy times, and take precautions. A mate I haven't seen for a few years was going to come down next weekend, and yesterday I said we'd cancel it for now. I was particularly looking fwd to catching up with him too. He thinks I'm mad.
My feeling on the whole thing - not everyone can do what I am able to do - but those who can - should. The less people get sick at once the better the chances for those who do get sick and need hospital care. It's the sudden rush of cases and overload on the health system that will do the most damage in terms of lives lost.
I hope I'm just being paranoid.

